Narcy is elusive. Narcy is everywhere. Narcy could be anyone.

Your parent. Your ex. Your boss. That friend who made everything about them. The sibling who rewrote your entire childhood. The partner who convinced you that you were the problem. The in-law who plays victim better than anyone you've ever met.

Narcy doesn't discriminate. They come in all shapes, sizes, colors, genders, and tax brackets. They're doctors, teachers, CEOs, stay-at-home parents, artists, and that person at book club who somehow makes your trauma about their feelings.

Some Narcys are loud and obvious. Others are so covert you didn't realize what happened until three years and thousands of therapy dollars later.

The thing about Narcy? They're never where you expect them to be. And when you finally spot them, they'll gaslight you into thinking you didn't.

But you did see them. You survived them. And your experience is valid even if they've rewritten the entire story.